Now that the “Hot Girl Summer” of 2024 has finally arrived after a rather long, lifeless, and lonely winter, even those in long-term relationships are probably wondering whether they’ll be tempted to return to single life.
Maybe things are getting quieter in the bedroom, maybe you’ve been fighting for weeks, or maybe you’ve simply realized that you’re no longer as interested in each other.
Either way, you may be having doubts about the person you’re supposedly crazy about.
But it turns out there’s a whole new way to test whether you’re with your “dream man/woman” or if you should break up before your daughter’s summer vacation.
The test has raised doubts among many in their longtime relationship (Dmitry Marchenko/Getty)
The technique has proven so legitimate that countless TikTok users are already putting it to the test in their own relationships.
Surprisingly, questions aren’t just for getting to know your loved one better…
It is also designed to help partners explore each other’s views on the relationship.
Twelve questions may not seem like a lot, as it covers a wide range of topics, but this exercise covers a wide range of ground.
The trend has surprised some TikTok users. (nd3000/Getty)
So, without further ado, here are the 12 questions:
1. If someone asked you what I am to you, what would you say?
2. What are three things you like about me?
3. What makes me different from the people I’ve dated or talked to before?
4. What do you dislike about me?
5. What do you like about me?
6. What was your first impression of me?
7. What are three things I say most often?
8. What do you hope for in our future?
9. If you were together now, what would you be doing?
10. If we had never met, what do you think we would be doing now?
11. What was your life like before we started dating?
12. Will I hold a special place in your heart forever?
And TikTok users around the world have been talking about the trend, which has struck a chord with some.
“I really want to ask him those questions but I think it would hurt,” one user wrote.
Another agreed: “Because I know how he answers these questions.”
“I don’t know why I’m crying while reading the questions,” a third joked.
Would you like to try this?
