Dear Harriet: I’ve dedicated almost a decade to the technology industry, working hard at the same company, but recently I’ve been feeling increasingly dissatisfied and underfulfilled in my role.
Despite my fears, I mustered the courage to draft my resignation letter.
Now my thoughts are clouded with uncertainty: What if I struggle to secure another position in this competitive field? Will I regret leaving behind the stability and routine I’ve relied on for so many years?
Balancing these concerns with their current living situation (paying a mortgage and supporting a growing family of four) makes the decision even more difficult.
I would be grateful if you could give me some advice as I reach this crossroads in my career.
— Worried about your career
For those of you worried about your career: Take a short break before doing anything.
I recommend doing some research to decide what you want to do next. Are there other companies in your field that would be of interest? You might find your work more rewarding if you take it to another company that might value your talents more.
You should look for work while you’re still in your current job. I don’t think you should quit your job without finding another one.
Dear Harriet: I’ve been passionate about travel and adventure all my life. After completing my studies in journalism, I decided to pursue a career as a travel blogger.
Over the past five years, I have been committed to building a successful online presence and sharing personal stories and insights with readers around the world.
Despite the fulfillment and accomplishments I’ve had in this field, my parents, who come from a traditional background, always wanted me to pursue a more traditional career, and they frequently expressed concerns about the stability of freelancing and the financial risks it entails.
At a recent family gathering, my parents emphasized the uncertainty of my career and reiterated their concerns: Though I am accomplished and financially stable through sponsorships and partnerships, I still feel the weight of their expectations and a sense of being misunderstood.
How can I effectively communicate my passion for travel blogging to my parents? What steps can I take to gain their support while still following through on my career dreams?
— Seeking parental understanding
For those of you seeking parental understandingHow honest have you been with your parents about your financial situation? It may ultimately give them some comfort.
What parents want most is for their children to feel safe and secure. Your parents want that for you and their framework is what they know. That’s why they keep pushing you to do something traditional. They don’t understand blogging and its potential to generate revenue.
Teach them about your business and how profitable it has become for you. Convince them that you want to be financially independent and that this path will allow you to do so.
Even if you work in a more modern field that they may not be familiar with, be sure to let them know that you understand their concerns and that you are acting wisely and strategically.
Harriette Cole is a lifestyle stylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative dedicated to helping people achieve their dreams. Please send your questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.
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