The phrase "pick me, choose me, love me" has been associated with the concept of a "pick-me girl," with some outlets discussing its evolution and others exploring its connection to the tv show Grey's Anatomy. The phrase was famously used in a scene from Grey's Anatomy, which some cast members reportedly had mixed feelings about. The term "pick-me girl" is also being discussed in the context of feminism and its potential villainization, with some arguing that the term has lost its original meaning.